Monday, 9 March 2015
5 Killed In Stabbing Spree In Rural Japan
Ladies, Can you rock this ???

Saw this online and i kept wondering. Guys, will you allow your boo wear this at the beach in the presence of your friends?? Lolz
Troops Recapture Buni, Yadi Towns In Yobe

APC Has No Blueprint For Nigeria’s Development – Pres Jonathan
Abu Dhabi Police Adds 2015 Rolls Royce Phantom to Patrol cars

Toddler found alive 14 hours after car crash in Utah river
ISIS BUTCHER, “Jihadi John” Apologizes to his Family
The Secrets of Close Couples
Saturday, 7 March 2015
10 THINGS YOUR MAN SHOULD NEVER MAKE YOU DO FOR HIM
You might think that you love your man so much, you’d do absolutely anything for him, but then again, there are also some things a man simply should never ask a woman to do for him. Being in a relationship doesn’t mean that you have to give up the right to be an individual, with a mind of your own, so find out where the line has to be drawn and read these ten things no man should ever ask a girl to do:
1. Stop seeing your family
Relationships with the in-laws can often be fraught, but he doesn’t have the right to tell you to stop seeing your family, or to make you choose between them and him. Your family were around way before him and they could be around long after too.
2. Switch religions or beliefs
Convert or go is not a thing that anyone should be told, because your beliefs are your own and they should not be up for negotiation. If he can persuade you to modify your beliefs, through rational and logical debate, and you are comfortable with that, then that’s no problem. But, it should be your decision alone, no one else’s.
2. Become his servant
If your man thinks that he can sit back and let you do all the cooking and cleaning, then this guy needs a swift kick up the rear end! He doesn’t own or employ you and you should both be sharing the chores.
3. Have physical intimacy without protection
Unless you are really settled in a long term relationship, then physical intimacy without a ‘protection’ is an obvious no-no and a man should never ask you to do it. Some guys do still have a hang up about using a safety hat, but, if he has that little respect for you, then it should be telling you something more about this man.
4. Forget your dreams
Whether its finishing college, going to university, having kids or following a career, a man should never ask to you give up your dreams for him. You should be able to work together, so that you can both follow your dreams and share them together.
5. Have a baby before you are ready
It’s your body and you will know when the time is right for you to have children. Kids aren’t just accessories that go with a relationship, they are a huge, long term, commitment and both partners must be sure that they are ready for that.
6. Change who you are
You are who you are, you should be proud of that, and he should love you for it too. A man should not ask you to change who you are because, if you do, then it will only be pretence and you won’t be happy pretending to be someone else.
7. Stop seeing your friends
You do need a life outside of a relationship and friends are an important part of that. If he is trying to stop you from going out with your friends, then that’s a sign of his own insecurities or of his controlling nature and you shouldn’t be putting up with it.
8. Be more of a girl
Yes, some guys do still think that girls should know their place! Well, don’t stand for it. If you are not the pretty pink, candy floss, stay at home type, then don’t be. Get out there and do the things that you want to do, even if he does think that they are not ‘girly’ enough pastimes.
9. Have an abortion
Things happen and, if an unexpected pregnancy occurs, then the man must step up to the mark and take his responsibilities seriously. He should never, under any circumstances, tell the woman to have an abortion. That is a very emotional decision that only the woman can make and then the man should be there to support her, whatever she decides.
10. Force you to stay when you really want to leave
If you are really unhappy in a relationship, then you should end it. Don’t let a man force to you to stay, just because he doesn’t want it to end and, don’t let him make you stay through emotional blackmail either.
Stay happy and love yourself!
White House lockdown after loud noise is heard
The source of the noise was unclear.
A Secret Service K9 unit was investigating a vehicle on 16th and Constitution Avenue which borders the South Lawn of the White House, agency spokesman Brian Leary said in an email.
The Washington DC Fire Department, meanwhile, reported a fire at a food cart on 15th Street NW on the east side of the White House. It said the fire was put out.
Security personnel shut down access to the White House, roping off Lafayette Park on the White House’s northern side.
“As pool and other press gathered outside near the South Lawn for the departure of President Obama and the First Family on the way to Selma, Ala., for a historic 50th anniversary march, a loud noise was heard,” a pool report said.
“The Secret Service then moved press back into the briefing room and locked the doors,” it added.
Subsequent pool reports said the presidential motorcade left the White House and at 11:36 am Obama, Michelle, their daughters Malia and Sasha and Michelle’s mother, Marian Robinson, departed for Selma aboard Air Force One.
Boko Haram joins ISIS
Boko Haram militants, have pledged allegiance to Islamic State, according to a message on the group’s Twitter account.
The message, which could not immediately be verified, appeared to be by the group’s leader, Abu Bakr bin Mohammed Shekau, who addressed himself as the Imam of Jamaátu Ahlus Sunnah Lidda’awati Wal Jihad (Boko Haram) and was addressed to Abu Bakr al-Baghdadi al-Husseini al-Qurashi, the leader of the Islamic State of Iraq and the Levant (ISIL) or Islamic State of Iraq and Syria (ISIS).
In the message, he said. “From your brother in Allah, Abu Mohamed Abu Bakr bin Mohammed Shekau, the Imam of Jamaátu Ahlus Sunnah Lidda Awaati Wal Jihad to the Caliph of Muslims Abubakar Abu Bakr Ibrahim ibn Awad ibn Ibrahim al-Husseini al-Qurashi.
We are sending you this message, following what Allah said in his Quran (And hold fast, all of you together, to the Rope of Allah and be not divided among yourselves) and what the Prophet, Peace be upon him said (Whoever died and he had not Imam, died by death of ignorance).
In submission to the order of Allah “Azza wa Jal”, and submission to the order of the prophet, peace be upon him to not separate from each other and to stay united as Ummah as Jammaaáh, We announce our allegiance to the Caliph of the Muslims Ibrahim ibn Awad ibn Ibrahim al-Husseini al-Qurashi and will hear and obey in times of difficulty and prosperity, in hardship and ease, and to endure being discriminated against and not to dispute about rule with those in power, except in case of evident infidelity,” read an English-language translation of the video broadcast in Arabic.
Nigerian troops have routed terrorists from different towns and communities, including Bara, the Headquarter of Gulani Local Government Area of Yobe State in the last few weeks.
Last week, President Goodluck Jonathan said the tide has “definitely turned” against militant Islamists as Nigerian troops and their regional allies recapture territory.
President Idriss Deby of Chad, Wednesday, said he knew the whereabouts of Abubakar Shekau, and called on him to surrender or risk being killed.
Boko Haram began a military campaign to impose Islamic rule in northern Nigeria in 2009.
It would be the latest in a series of groups to swear allegiance to ISIS.
The Importance of Integrity in Building Relationships
It takes time and effort to build successful and positive relationships with other people. To build a successful relationship, we must be able to communicate and listen effectively. We must respect the ideas and views of other people. Sometimes we must put the needs of others before our own needs. All these things and more go into building successful relationships, but perhaps no factor is more vital to strong, lasting relationships than integrity. Integrity is the bedrock foundation upon which all successful relationships are built.
Trust and respect are crucial factors in any relationship
The foundation of trust and respect is integrity. If that foundation of integrity is flawed or weak, it is impossible to build the necessary trust required to maintain successful, positive relationships.
This is true in business and personal relationships
A businessperson seeking to climb the success ladder of an organization can overcome many obstacles, including his/her own mistakes and miscalculations. But the individual who compromises their integrity and betrays other’s trust will advance to the top of any organization.
Here are some concepts that will help you build stronger relationships by being a person of integrity:
Understanding Integrity is about Doing the Little Things Right: It is said that those who cannot be trusted at all times, cannot truly be trusted at any time. Building trust with others requires time and patience, yet one betrayal, no matter how large or small, can destroy that trust forever.
The theft of one dollar is still a theft. The person of integrity does not compromise his principles because the stakes are small. A small lie is still a lie.
Make a Commitment to Honest and Reliability: Being a person of integrity requires a conscious decision. Don’t wait until you are facing a crisis to decide how you will react. Make the decision now to be an honest and reliable person. Make the decision that you do not have a price – you will not sell your integrity for money, fame, power, or any anything else no matter what.
Put “Doing the Right Thing” Ahead of Your Personal Agenda/Goals: The person of integrity will make difficult decisions even if there is a personal cost attached to them.
Be the Same Person in Private as You are in Public: It is often said that the measure of a person’s character is what he/she does when no one is watching. Character is who we are at all times.
Be Accountable for Your Actions and Behavior at All Times: Accept credit for your successes gracefully, but more importantly, accept responsibility for your mistakes and wrongdoings without being forced to do so.
Do Not Allow Circumstances to Alter Your Moral Compass: Develop an unchanging standard for moral decision-making, regardless of circumstance. Integrity is not dependent or determined by circumstances. Right is right regardless of the circumstance.
Treat All People With Respect Even if You Have Nothing to Gain: Do not treat those who cannot “do anything” for you less well than those who can help you achieve your goals.
Talk to People, Not About Them: If you have problems or issues with another person, discuss the issue up with them directly. Don’t gossip, and don’t spread poison.
Do What You Must Do, Even When You Do Not Want to Do Them: We all face unpleasant tasks. Get them out of the way. Zig-Ziglar said “When you do the things you have to do when you have to do them, the day will come when you can do the things you want to do when you want to do them.”
Performing unpleasant tasks without complaint shows the people around you that you are not just there for the good times.
Integrity is a Friend to All
Your integrity is your most trusted friend. It keeps your priorities straight, and helps you stay on the right path. It allows you to accept unjust criticism without lashing out, and it allows you to learn from valid and grow from valid criticism. Integrity prevent
8 Easy Ways to Know If Your Relationship Is Over
It’s hard to admit that your relationship is over so you can stay in an unhealthy relationship without realizing it. If you are not happy with your partner or if he is not happy with you, a breakup may be the only smart option. There’s no sense in staying in a relationship that has no future. You just waste your time and your nerves. Here are 8 ways to know if your relationship is over.
1. He doesn’t call you anymore
In the beginning of your relationship, your partner used to text you and call you several times a day. He sent you romantic messages and flowers. Now, he is too busy to call you or to text you. When you call him, he doesn’t have any second to say how much he misses you. He never texts you back as well. It’s a sure sign he is not interested in you anymore.
2. You are not interested in him
If you don’t want to spend time with your partner, you stop loving his jokes and his kisses, let your partner know that you want to end your relationship. He has a right to know it. If you think of meeting another guy while dating your partner, what are you waiting for? Don’t waste your partner’s time! Respect and honesty are those things that you should never forget about, no matter what.
3. You don’t have anything to talk about
Remember when you first started your relationship, you could talk all night long without any awkward silences. Now, you don’t have anything to talk about. You spend a lot of time fighting over trifles and you rarely talk about your love and your future family and kids. If you don’t know how to start a conversation with your partner or he doesn’t want to talk to you because he is always busy, it’s a red flag.
4. Your date nights are over
Do you remember the last time you and your partner went on a date? If you can’t remember, it’s a bad sign. Date nights are essential in a strong and healthy relationship. If your partner stops surprising you with romantic dinners, moonlit walks or romantic trips, maybe it’s time to have a serious talk with him.
5. He is always busy
There are times when your partner may be super busy and you shouldn’t disturb him. However, if he is ALWAYS busy, it’s just a ready-made excuse. It’s easier to say “I’m busy” than to spend the whole evening and night with a person you don’t love anymore. Find out if your man is really busy, it’s not difficult to check.
6. He forgets all special occasions
If your partner forgets your birthday, it’s not a happy experience. Sure, you don’t expect expensive gifts and a large bouquet of flowers. You expect your partner to show you how much he loves you and cares about you. If he forgets all special occasions, including your birthday, he doesn’t care about you anymore.
7. You can’t stop fighting
There’s no perfect relationship, but constant fighting is not healthy. It’s okay to fight once in a while, but when you and your partner fight every hour, it’s time to say goodbye to your relationship or look for smart ways to stop constant fighting. Find out the reason of your fights: money, female friends or job. If you are finding yourself constantly fighting with your partner for no reason, your relationship may be over.
Pacquiao-Mayweather: Floyd may not be able hold off Manny, says Tyson
Unbeaten Floyd Mayweather’s usual conservative style might not be enough to hold off Filipino ring icon Manny Pacquiao, former heavyweight world champion Mike Tyson has warned.
Tyson is just the latest big name to weigh in with an opinion on how the long-awaited showdown between the two pound-for-pound greats might go when they step into the ring in Las Vegas on May 2.
“He has to fight,” Tyson said this week of Mayweather, in a video posted on YouTube.
“If he’s not going to score, he is going to lose the round. Also, if he is laid back, he is going to lose the round.”
Tyson says the fighters who have troubled Pacquiao have been prolific punchers.
“Floyd doesn’t throw nowhere near 100 punches a round,” he said. “He’s more, you know, scientific about it. He really plots a lot. And he sits around and he poses. And this guy (Pacquiao) is all over — fading, moving.
“I just don’t think (Mayweather) is going to be able to play that plotting, skill … Floyd’s got to fight the first couple of rounds.”
Tyson isn’t the only former heavyweight world champion who has his eye on Pacquiao-Mayweather.
Evander Holyfield, speaking at a sponsors’ event in New York on Tuesday, said he plans to be at the welterweight unification bout at the MGM Grand Garden Arena.
“I don’t know who’s going to win, that’s the reason I’m going to see it,” the four-time heavyweight champion told Newsday.
“If I had to pay, I would pay to see that fight, because that’s how great that fight will be.”
Holyfield said the differing styles of Mayweather and Pacquiao make the fight hard to handicap.
“Pacquiao, the only way he can win is if he corners him off,” Holyfield said.
“Can he corner him off? If he corners him off, I think he will win … I don’t think he can. But that’s what makes the fight so interesting.”
9 Signs Your Partner Is Likely to Cheat
1. They’ve cheated in the past.
This one should be obvious enough, but anyone who’s cheated in the past (even if it was a prior relationship) could cheat on you again, according to a study conducted by the University of South Alabama. That’s not to say you shouldn’t give someone a second chance. You just probably shouldn’t be giving them an eighth chance.
2. They’re introverted.
Introverted people might not be putting themselves out there and hitting on everyone they come across, but that same U of SA study found that they’re more likely to go along with it if someone does hit on them.
3. They look like the kind of person that would cheat.
Surprisingly, you can trust your gut when it comes to cheaters. If you’ve got a feeling your significant other is the cheating type, chances are you’re probably right. A study by Brigham Young University found people were pretty good at “guessing” whether or not someone was a cheater, even without any background information.
4. They have a long ring finger.
A study by the University of Oxford found that people who have longer ring fingers than pointer fingers are more inclined to cheat (it’s a sign of more testosterone exposure in the womb). But good luck trying to measure your SO’s fingers without looking crazy.
5. They’re a man.
All right, this one might not be so fair, but the same Oxford study found that men are more likely to cheat. Not every guy is going to cheat. But 57 percent of men are likely to be unfaithful compared to 47 percent of women.
6. Their father cheated.
Genes can be responsible for a partner’s predisposition to cheat, according to a study conducted by Czech anthropologists. One study found that sons of cheating fathers were more likely to cheat as well. It doesn’t guarantee that cheating gets passed between generations, but a family history could be a warning sign.
7. They’re hanging out with someone less attractive than you a lot.
Believe it or not, you should be less worried about the hot blonde coworker and more worried about their average-looking friends. According to affair-hookup site Victoria Milan, people tend to cheat with someone less attractive than their partner. That doesn’t mean you need to be suspicious of everyone; it just means your partner isn’t going after every hot person they see.
8. They have anxiety and get jealous easily.
Unfortunately, if you’re partner is jittery and anxious, they’re more likely to cheat, at least according to a study recently published in the Journal of Applied Psychology.
9. Their friends cheat.
Seventy-seven percent of cheating men also have cheating friends, according to M. Gary Newman, author of The Truth About Cheating. That doesn’t mean 77 percent of men with cheating friends cheat, but it should be a red flag if his friend’s infidelity doesn’t bother him.
Don’t freak out though. The overall likelihood your partner will physically cheat on you is only around 6 percent.
Humans just made history by reaching an icy dwarf planet for the first time
NASA's Dawn spacecraft became the first space probe in history to ever reach a dwarf planet.
Since it was launched in 2007, Dawn has been accelerating through space and on Friday morning at 9:39 am ET, NASA confirmed that the spacecraft had reached its final: the dwarf planet Ceres.
"We feel exhilarated," Chris Russell, principal investigator of the Dawn mission at the University of California, said in a NASA statement. "We have much to do over the next year and a half, but we are now on station with ample reserves, and a robust plan to obtain our science objectives."
Ceres is the largest object in a strip of rocky debris, called the asteroid belt, floating in space between the planets Mars and Jupiter. In fact, it was the first dwarf planet ever discovered back in 1801. At that time, however, it was classified as a planet, and then later as an asteroid. Today, it meets the criteria for a relatively new class of objects called dwarf planets — a classification that includes the much maligned and very loved Pluto.
(NASA/JPL-Caltech/UCLA/MPS/DLR/IDA) Dawn is now about 38,000 miles above the surface of Ceres. But over the course of the year it will descend toward the surface, eventually getting closer than the International Space Station is to Earth and snapping pictures of the surface that will be 800 times sharper than what the Hubble Space Telescope could take.
In addition to becoming the first spacecraft to orbit a dwarf planet, Dawn is also the only satellite to orbit two planets during its lifetime. And this amazing achievement is made possible by Dawn's ion propulsion system, which gave the spacecraft enough power to escape the gravitational grip of Vesta when it orbited in 2011, and continue on through space toward Ceres.
As the spacecraft's propulsion system takes it closer to the surface of Ceres, scientists are excited to learn about the planet's composition and find out just what the heck those mysterious white dots, shown in the image above, on its surface could possible be.
Troops recapture two strategic territories from Boko Haram
Nigerian troops have recaptured two territories held by Boko Haram insurgents in the Northeast of Nigeria.
In a statement issued by Colonel Sani Kukasheka Usman, Acting Director Army Public Relations, the Nigerian military have recaptured Mafa and Marte Local Governments Areas of Borno State on Wednesday and Friday respectively.
“During these operations, the gallant and courageous troops recovered a large quantity of high caliber of arms and ammunitions including anti-aircraft guns from the insurgents,” the statement said.
“It is significant to note that our troops did not suffer any casualty during these operations.”
Usman noted that presently, troops are conducting cordon and search and mopping up operations in the recovered territories, while effort is on going to recover more grounds from the fleeing terrorists.
With the capture of Mafa, Marte LGAs, and the Chadian troops holding fort in Dikwa, the international route from Nigeria, Cameroon, Chad and Central African Republic is now fully secured.
With this positive development, the security of the area has significantly improved. It is hoped that international trade and socio-economic activities would be restored along this corridor.
10 feared dead after suicide bomber attack at Maiduguri market this morning
At least 10 people are feared dead after a suicide bomber riding on a tricycle popularly known as Keke NAPEP attacked the Baga fish market in Borno state about an hour ago. More details later...
5 killed in shooting at bar in Mali
A shooting at a bar popular with expatriates in Mali left five people dead Saturday, including French and Belgian citizens, authorities said.
One French citizen, one Belgian and three Malians were killed in the attack in the capital of Bamako, said Gabriel Toure, director of a local hospital.
An additional eight people were injured, he said.
French President Francoise Hollande released a statement condemning the attack. He said there is a possibility but no confirmation of a French victim.
The French Embassy in Bamako warned its citizens to be on alert if they go out in public.
Though it's unclear whether any rebel group is responsible for the attack, Malian forces have battled Islamist militants in the northern part of the nation for years.
Mali plunged into chaos after soldiers staged a coup three years ago. As a result, Tuareg fighters capitalized on the power vacuum to launch an insurgency that ended with their takeover of the north.
After the Tuareg fighters seized the region, a power struggle erupted with local Islamist radicals. The extremists toppled the tribe and seized control of a large piece of northern Mali, an area the size of France.
Since then, the nation has battled various rebel factions, mostly in the northern region, with the help of French and African forces.

